MUSINGS

From the Notebook

Writing about everything under the sky β€”Β and the life that happens in between.

Four Hours to Sakleshpur – A Lifetime to Get Here

I grew up watching a driver shift gears in an Ambassador, listening to stories of my grandma who learnt to drive at 55. I wanted that β€” the freedom, the control, the confidence of going wherever I wanted. It took me decades, two driving instructors, a pandemic, and a Maruti S-Presso to get there. And then, finally β€” four hours each way to...

The Thread That Held

Only three girls were in the class. The instructor who walked in that first day would become my brother. I did not know this yet. Neither did he. But the universe apparently did...

Singapore, With All of It

It began with the wrong MRT station. We were staying on Orchard Road. Dhoby Ghaut was two minutes away. Instead we walked ten minutes in the wrong direction and took the longest route possible. Not one person told us. Every time we passed that Holiday Inn for the next four years I laughed...

Who Lights the Fire

I wanted to be present for every ritual, every prayer, every step of the journey the tradition says the soul takes after the body is gone. I wanted to light the fire. Instead I watched...

Dependency Is a Trap. Even the Loving Kind.

This is not a dramatic essay about crisis or collapse. It is about something quieter β€” the slow accumulation of small moments that eventually add up to a realisation. Dependency, even when it comes wrapped in love and good intention, is a trap. Even the loving kind...

We Are All Living Inside the Mahabharata

I could see all of it in the Mahabharata β€” the jealousies, the manipulation, the disrespect toward women, the power of money, fighting for what is rightfully yours. And then I looked at the modern world today...